The word ‘result’ creates lot of apprehension as well as enthusiasm. Even if the preparation is adequate, there are still butterflies in the stomach on the day of results. This anxiety reflects both hope as well as distress in each individual. When results are announced, we see various reactions; joy, depression, irritation or even denial.
Observing the current scenario and the hype associated with the results, it is obvious that accepting failure is a challenge for everyone. If results are unexpected, we take extreme steps mostly we blame ourselves. This is certainly not desirable and the root cause of this behavior is that we are not taught to accept failure. In an attempt to provide the best to yourself, the craving to win has completely overshadowed the lessons one learns from losing. It is high time people realize that everyone cannot be a topper in every steps of life. In fact, losing extends an opportunity to introspect, a thought to explore various options and most importantly it gives another perspective towards life!
It’s important to discuss with everyone that life offers much more and is not all about winning and losing. The approach to handle both, success and failure needs to be demonstrated so that you learn to handle defeat before victory. Always love yourself and enjoy the process of preparation and participation rather than fretting about the outcome.
Nothing is important than life and any result can be managed so that the outcome is positive.
